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How to stop being attracted to someone because you know they'll never see you that way?

The friendzone is great with me, but I need the longing to bug off.
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HumanEarth · F
Look, the fastest way to stop missing someone who doesn’t feel the same way is to give yourself some space. Its got tt be both emotionally and in person.

You’ve got to shift your mindset and start putting that energy into growing yourself and building new connections. The truth is, attraction fades, especially when you stop feeding it. With time and distance, it gets easier.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
@HumanEarth it's so rare for me to be attracted to anyone. It's real and deep because that's where I look in people. I don't want to not be their friend, just want my heart to give up.
HumanEarth · F
Then its going to take longer to heal. You're going to have to distance yourself for a while, at least till head back on straight