I Am Gay

In my freshmen year of college I really liked this guy but I was rejected out of my body. Being 320 lbs it's understandable, and I used it as an inspiration to "work on myself" I ended up losing 120 lbs. Yet I still can't find a guy. Sometimes it makes me think that I'm not good enough. But no one ever gives me a chance. I've constantly been told that I'm a jack of all trades or that I'm a great guy but it never seems to help. In all honesty I just want something real.

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alex31890c · 31-35, M

There are even guys who don't like skinny guys but chubby guys. You just have to find the right one or have the right one find you. I often heard that it's a thing of accepting yourself. Once you accept yourself being gay and accept your body, then others somehow feel it and want you. You have to love yourself that others can love you. If you don't love yourself you'll neverreally accept others loving you. Start learning to love yourself and go on working on your body. Working on your body is something you shouldn't only do to get a boyfriend, but to do something for yourself and the body you're living in! It's your body, you'll have it for all your life, so care for it!

Smellyjeans · 56-60, M

Don't give up, it took me years to find the most wonderful guy in the world, you will Meet the right guy, Good Luck.

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