Bored, lonely and looking for new friends.

Hi, everyone. I'm Travis, a 55 year old gay man in Michigan that hasn't even been on a date in 7 years, much less been intimate. I'm at the point where I 😩 when I think about why I haven't found someone and I just wish I could figure out how to meet a guy that is a good fit for me. I'm on some apps but all the guys look for on there is... How soon can we "do it?" I'm not really looking for that, but it's nice when it happens.

For the most part, what I'm looking for is someone to share my highs and lows with, to laugh and be discouraged with and to have intelligent conversations with. I just want to stop crying as I wonder, "Why NOT me?"

Guess I'm just looking to vent and get advice.

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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

Love comes in unexpected times and places, sweetie!

Don't look, keep living your life and you'll attract it.

I'm a T-Girl, accepted at work as one, certainly more than passable, and I met my fella on a night out in a regular bar with my work colleagues. I asked him to buy me a drink, we chatted, went off with our own work colleagues, met at the end of the night, chatted some more on the way to get a taxi/bus, I told him I was trans...but he liked me and it became what it became.

He'd always classed himself as hetero, and certainly never went out with anyone like me, sweetie, but we 'clicked' and there you have it.

Happy together for many years.

So...it happens. Don't look, don't wait around, just do your thing and it'll come to you.

😘

factanonverba · 56-60, M

Bored, lonely, aNd looking for friendz here too.

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