Why are bottoms complicated?

Why is it when i tell someone that am power-top they ghost me. I once told this gay friend of mine that am power-top and he ghosted me. And we've been in a relationship for over 2years but after I told him that he ghosted me

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Jessmari · 46-50

Your telling them you're an aggressive and controlling top in the bedroom. Some could red flag that as side step from abusive if they aren't into that.

SlowMo · 22-25, M

@Jessmari ,so should I tell them that am top or vers,and aren't most gay men intrested in PT guys ?

Jessmari · 46-50

@SlowMo I think it's just going to vary from one individual to the next. You could just go with top and see where it goes from there. I think many of them like the fantasy of a power top, but the reality could make them skiddish about it.

SlowMo · 22-25, M

@Jessmari ,Thanks for the advice. I guess next time i'll just say am top.