Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

Sweetie, it sounds like he's very curious at the moment. I have had a fair few IM's from men that start with 'Hi, i'm not gay but....', and from what I have gathered from what they've said (and I don't know why they are asking me for this as I am really not interested in that!) that they want to understand what it feels to be penetrated, anally...

So....in light of your husband, what you need is a good ol' chat together, to be honest and open...and, if this is something that he feels that would be something that is sexual to him, you might - if you yourself feel like it would be an option for you...and, may I stress that relationships are about trust and not about being pushed into doing anything that you find uncomfortable - look into what they call 'pegging'..

Now, pegging is where the woman wears a phallic penis (usually on a belt or on pants) and can penetrate her partner with it (lubrication, as any anal sex exploits, would be desirable) for sex like another man. Now, as I understand - peeps, fill me in if I am wrong - some of these penis' have the other end of them that are suppose to pleasure the wearer too...

So....that may well be an option, sweetie...

I wish you well...

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