Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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SW-User

The reason is he is gay. Nothing wrong with that except he is married to you. I am sorry but he is not really confused. He wants to be with a man. It's cheating no matter how you look at it . Sorry my friend

Quinton · 46-50, F

@SW-User I think i have to face the truth, but he is probably bi, cause he is also interested in other woman

SW-User

@Quinton he sounds like he wants to explore all his sexual fantasies. Are you prepared for this?

Quinton · 46-50, F

@SW-User I have given him everything a woman can give to her husband, even crossed the line for him, but still not enough! He is a lost cause

SW-User

@Quinton i get that. The more you give this type of personality the more they want and expect. Time now I guess for you to keep the status quo or let him know he is free to go out on his own and find his zen. You need to look after your own health physically and mentally

Thereyouare · 56-60, M

@Quinton don't give up on him
What did you mean by crossing the line for him