Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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HumanEarth · F

Welcome to SW

I believe you husband's curiosity is catching up with him.

I think he wants to hang on to you, because your safe and trust you

But at the same time, I also think he is trying to find a man to sleep with

Basically he is getting ready to cheat of you with another man

You have some real serious thinking to do.

Do you want him to stay part of the family and stay separated in your home. ( meaning you don't divorce, just live together and he goes off and have dates with men)

Quinton · 46-50, F

@HumanEarth No way! Didn't sign up for that.

HumanEarth · F

@Quinton then you know what you got to do then

Kick him out and start your new life without him

Quinton · 46-50, F

@HumanEarth And i thankyou 💓

HumanEarth · F

@Quinton Think of it this way. If my wife of 31 years did the same thing to me.

She would be gone to.

I don't take kindly to having my trust betrayed

Quinton · 46-50, F

@HumanEarth what is SW

HumanEarth · F

@Quinton SW is short for Similar Worlds the name of the website

Quinton · 46-50, F

@HumanEarth 🫢