Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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Dayman343 · M

I have spoken to many straight, married men on these sites and it would appear many men are going down this route these days. They see it as a outlet for sexual satisfaction as many are not getting it from their current partners. The typical story is that the wife went off sex after childbirth or they have let themselves go and are no longer seen as attractive. Seeking pleasure with other men for many is often the only source of pleasure as there is generally no strings attached to it. I confess I have a regular man friend with whom I have fun with. I'm not not gay but you could say I'm a bit bi. I'm not really attracted to men, my attraction will always be towards women.