Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Probably not gay but certainly bi or bi-curious Either way he is dissatisfied with monogamous sex. If the marriage is worth saving get yourselves into counseling. If not, then just move on and take care of yourself
Sad situation

ilovewatching · 61-69, M

@GJOFJ3 It may not be about the sex but about the novelty, anticipation and excitement of the encounter.