Husband interested in men

Been married for 25yrs and 3yrs ago i found out that my husband has been having chats online with gay men and using a fake facebook account. At the time he begged me not to leave him and told me he was just doing it for fun so i gave him another chance. 3wks ago i again discovered that he was again on gay dating sites and also placed an add looking for men where he advertised him as being a bottom/versatile.He still dont want to admit that he is interested in men but cant give me a reason for why is doing this. Is my husband gay and living a lie.Please help me to figure this out

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SW-User

Regardless of his sexual orientation. That’s just plain disrespectful. He could be gay, bi, straight, he shouldn’t be on dating sites while being married to you tf 💀. Use your judgment ,woman.

Onestarlitnight

@SW-User
Agreed.
If it’s something that important to him he should be able to talk about it openly. It’s just sex then. And sexuality should never be taboo in any stable relationship.

He could have shared his desire for that type of experience and maybe his wife could have been part of it.

Quinton · 46-50, F

I know ! Its hard he'll be 50 this year. We have grown up kids. I want to lleave him but its not easy to make the decision cause my family thinks that i shouldn't.