I told him to move in with us and i cant tell my family that his infected
No, your family needs to know. If he gets cut on something and that thing cuts and infects someone else, what on earth would say or do? Do you know how bad AIDS can be?
People don't want to get infected, period, especially with something that bad. I myself avoid and quarantine when sick and I leave my friends when they're infected.
Point 1 in a nutshell: your family's health matters and everyone will try to protect themselves from dangerous or infectious diseases. It isn't hate. It's common sense health and hygeine. People want to stay away from getting sick. Your family has rights too and they deserve protection. They don't deserve to be put at risks y'all
clearly know about but simply won't alert them about. Do you really care about him being affected by something like this when you're willing to put your family in danger to be harmed by that same thing? Please, avoid jeopardizing innocent people's health. If he's hurting because of this, he should understand that.
I suggest at
least telling your
family to watch out for something as serious as AIDS. This isn't even what the main point should have been.
Point 2:
Good for caring about the situation of your friend. There are avenues to take care of it and work to a better future (without placing you family at risk).
He needs to process what he's gotten into. It's not easy but he has to first accept the truth. This is his situation amd he needs to become inspired to stand up and take his actions for himself. It has to come from him. He will regret, mourn, and grief. Be a kind, honest friend and gently push him to good. Everyone wants to do well. You know he wants to help himself. Give him enough space to think and act while encouraging him to remember that he's the one who has to work to protect his health. Not just his, but your family as well.
So remember, help inspire him to take tge right steps to improve. He can walk and he can take those steps. But sace your family from risk in the process. Things can get better but let's not break something to fix something. One step at a time
