Confidence is at the peak of attraction.

It is not easy to find and maintain the right balance.

In men, confidence often tips over into arrogance.

In women, it can come across as aggression.

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miscreant6x6 · 61-69, M

Confidence is comforting.
Arrogance is abhorrent.

SchoolBelle · 61-69, F

@miscreant6x6 Yes, exactly.

miscreant6x6 · 61-69, M

@SchoolBelle Have you experienced both, may I ask ?

SchoolBelle · 61-69, F

@miscreant6x6 Yes, of course.

I have experienced both and, no doubt, expressed both on occasion.

miscreant6x6 · 61-69, M

@SchoolBelle Arrogance is not quite so disagreeable in a lady, I find. In fact it has a certain charm, nay appeal.

SchoolBelle · 61-69, F

@miscreant6x6 I have found, over the years, that arrogant men (or women, to be fair) soon bring out my own arrogance.