How often do you get compliments?

Are they genuine? men or women or a combination of both? For the longest time a compliment was few and far between. Once in a blue moon is an overstatement. But once I started working on myself, building my confidence, getting in shape and being an all around fun guy, only then did I start getting compliments. I must have been more miserable and hard to be around than I thought.

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SW-User

Pretty often. But they always seem empty, idk y

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@SW-User example?

SW-User

@JestAJester well. I get complimented that i'm handsome, smart, etc.. but no follow through from anyone to be friends. It just ends at that.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@SW-User you think maybe theyre trying to get something out of you?

SW-User

@JestAJester everyone is.

I've started to take these compliments with a grain of salt.

Funny enough.. a hire percentage is from older women.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@SW-User In my experience older women are usually more genuine. Most of the compliments I get from women are older.

Classy · 22-25, FVIP

@SW-User whether they seem empty or not, think that the sentiment is there. They’re trying to cheer you up just a little in any moment

SW-User

@Classy that's a very good point