I Have Big Boobs

For years now I've worn oversized T shirts over my bathing suits at the beach because of my chest. I do it to be conservative not because I like to. I hate the look, it makes me feel like I'm fat and I'm matronly and I'm neither. Going through my summer wardrobe now I'm thinking about not going that route anymore but at the same time I know once I'm on the beach with all the crowds I'm going to go right back to the shirt. I need to feel more confident about myself in general but my husband has an unholy knack for saying just the right things to make me feel ashamed of myself.

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LucyAndEddy · 61-69, C

Most husbands, in one manner or another, like to show off their wife. It's the "Look what mighty hunter has captured" syndrome. A few, perhaps including your husband, rather than being proud, are worried they they won't be capable of keeping their mate should they be challenged. I think your husband may fall into the latter category and so tries to dissuade you from dressing naturally.