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I Am Bisexual

My current female love interest is acting weird. I need help. She's talking about being afraid to fall too fast and wanting to pullback, but she doesn't want to hurt me. I've told her I was without expectation and that I would respect whatever her needs were. She then said she wanted me to herself, but she didn't want to keep me from better people out there. HELP. What do I do. We're gonna talk about it more in person in . couple of days.
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She just sounds like she’s insecure and cautious. I would take it as a good sign that she expressed interest in you in the way of her saying that she wanted you all to herself.

Reassure her but tell her you don’t mind being committed to her as long as she’s committed to you. Give her time to think about it afterwards. If the feelings are mutual that you two like each other then it’s just building your relationship up! Good luck!
Effloresce · 22-25, F
Sounds like she doesn’t have very high self esteem, and is struggling with wanting to be with you and simultaneously not wanting to be too pushy or too fast with things. I think you’ll be able to work things out once you talk in person, as long as you both are clear with what you want out of your relationship
Allelse · 31-35, M
Ugh!!! Women eh? Pain in the ass with their "Oh I dont know what to do!" crap. I mean come on. Make up your fricken mind.
DeputySchrute · 18-21, F
[@415694,Allelse] She seems to really like me, but she's afraid. I just want things to work out.
Allelse · 31-35, M
[@832016,DeputySchrute] You gotta be straight and tell her its enough, either she commits or she can get stuffed.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I suspect she's after a sign from you that you intend to commit exclusively to each other.
thesilentgirl · 26-30, F
Still need help ?
DeputySchrute · 18-21, F
[@858991,thesilentgirl] Sort of?
thesilentgirl · 26-30, F
[@832016,DeputySchrute] pm me if anything u need !

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