So when a woman doesn't want to date you she labels you as being 'chopped'...

Apparently it's a slang term meaning 'ugly'.

Anyone actually experienced being called 'chopped' or a 'chopped man' by a woman?

Maybe men should start talking about women being 'chopped' because their attitude is up-appealing despite how physically attractive they might be. 8-)

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bijouxbroussard · F

If you’re trying to date someone who is too young (chronologically or intellectually) , you’re more likely to hear slang.
There’s a lot to be said for not just focusing on looks.

urbancowboy · 56-60, M

Only when I was in elementary school

emmasfriend · 46-50, F

Never come across that expression !

CougarLisa · 36-40, F

Don't let other people define you

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@CougarLisa I would take it like a 'badge of honour' to actually be called 'chopped' by a self-entitled woman. 8-) It's the closest I'd get to a woman giving a true opinion. I can't ever be a Chad/Tyrone 666-rule compliant man. lol

Hairlover · 41-45, F

Don't understand what you mean

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Hairlover A woman calls a man she doesn't find attractive 'chopped' if he makes any sort of unsolicited contact or approach (or even just eye contact) and the woman thinks he's unattractive to her therefore the contact/approach is deemed unwanted. Men don't do the same with women but perhaps they should.

Infamous607 · 51-55, M

Of course. Many times. So?. Who cares?

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Infamous607 Indeed - nothing to see here - move along. I was just curious as I've never heard the term used socially here yet it seems to be a modern dating phrase all the 20-something girls now use when complaining to their friends about sub-standard (to them) men. I'm a 50-something. ;-)

Infamous607 · 51-55, M

@zonavar68
It's funny.

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