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How much does a person being a rape survivor effect how your attracted to them?

This goes for men and women. Because men CAN be raped too…
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Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
That has nothing to do with if im attracted to them or not. Now depending on how they handle that tupe of trauma will make me respect them more cause anyone who goes through something like that and and takes their power back bu not letting that bad experience dictate how they approach relationships in the future is admirable
Cantsayno · 51-55, M
Being a man that was taken advantage of by a friends father. I don’t tell anyone I date about it.
I’ve have had 3 women in my life that have been taken advantage of and I feel bad for them. But I don’t treat them any differently.
It doesn’t affect me at all and I would always try to be supportive and compassionate towards her.

And thank you for acknowledging that men can also be victims of abuse by women
Lizzie42 · 41-45, F
Zero impact on attraction. Can't judge somebody for something that wasn't their choice/decision.
BohoBabe · M
Doesn't matter either way when it comes to attraction, though I might respect them more for how they handled it.
A woman I dated had been raped several years before we met. It had no impact on my attraction to her .. but it did bring out a stronger sense of .. protectiveness toward her.
spjennifer · 61-69, T
No difference whatsoever, it's not their fault that they were raped and certainly doesn't make them any less attractive. Might require more delicacy in how you treat them to not traumatize them but definitely doesn't make them any more or less attractive than anyone else, nor should it.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
It doesn't affect it

Bonus points all f they can identify as aa survivor and not a victim
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
No difference
Beetlejuice68 · 56-60, M
Has nothing to do with how I perceive people.
Peter1985 · 36-40, M
it attracts me more
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@SinlessOnslaught You said it for the majority of us. Jesus.
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it would be odd to me for that to be a relevant data set.
Alyosha · 31-35, M
Matt85 · 36-40, M
it makes no difference to me
its only in assbackwards countries that that in an issue
Peter1985 · 36-40, M

 
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