Is there a certain type you seem to attract ?? If yes, what is that type ??

I would say those who would rather settle for what they don’t really want than be lonely, but I recognize I’m more comfortable with a familiar sense of being a bit unworthy than I would be with a more intense interest, so it’s not just that I attract them but that I settle for being settled for. Some of us just don’t know how to do this right. 🙄🙃