Why are people so so obsessed with fitness and health when looking for a partner

People seem totally fixated on it. For me I’d rather have a big unfit unhealthy girl that a small fit heathy one.
There’s more to life than diet and gyms.

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Ferric67 · M

I prefer my ladies fit

Willomk1 · 46-50, M

No problem what is it you like about them being fit@Ferric67

Ferric67 · M

@Willomk1 I'm a very fit individual and I like to do a lot of physically straining things....i.e., extreme hiking, kayaking...etc
I would want a woman who can reasonably keep up or excel with me

Willomk1 · 46-50, M

Totally get that, I love a woman I can care for and needs a lot of support@Ferric67