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Is it wrong for a guy to base attraction off a womans weight? or for a woman to base attraction on a mans height?🤔

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M
I've been having some deep thoughts on this topic. I would say that shaming people because of their appearance is a wrong approach, but having a preference of what you like in your partner isn't. There's this double standard where women will shame a guy if he's not 6 feet tall, but get upset if he doesn't want a woman who's overweight. We all have preferences, yet many people will get offended by them.

I even wrote a story of what I want in a woman, but the amount of backlash proves a lot of people, especially men, can't have standards. You can take a look for yourself.

https://similarworlds.com/relationships/4773128-What-I-really-want-in-a-relationship-with-a-woman

A lot will say it's unrealistic, will tell you to change or lower your standards, or as far as saying that there won't be a person out there, if not a slim chance, that will suit your standards.
DerSilberneKonig1 · 22-25, M
@xSiFiGamer2016x I've noticed the height vs weight fight here and there which is why i asked it the way i did, there are billions of people on this planet, if you look hard enough you will find what youre looking for.

As far as i see it, most people who complain most likely don't even know what they want for dinner most nights, let alone what or who they want to spend the rest of their life with. And even then people are always changing, no one will be young and beautiful forever.

I do hope you and everyone else find what youre looking for tho.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M
@DerSilberneKonig1 Same with you man. It'll be a rough battle, but the war must end sooner or later. We're still young and have a long time to figure things out before we set sail to find what we're looking for. 👍