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Place these four attributes in the order you would want in someone

Heart, intelligence, personality, looks.

Interesting fact, for most people, how they rank what they want is often the same as how they rank themselves. Self love โค๏ธ
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Muthafukajones ยท 46-50, M
Heart
Looks
Personality
Intelligence
SW-User
Four words, four attributes.
Love reflecting their essence.

I know you are asking for something else, but some of us, don't need the ranking of to other people randomly online... though I would suggest care, empathy, love, compatibility before anything.... (and compatibility is a large word)
MyNameIsHurl ยท 41-45, F
@SW-User I hold many a heart ๐Ÿ˜„
SW-User
@MyNameIsHurl I'm far from a hippie.... but let's not detract from how you hold hearts. โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™
MyNameIsHurl ยท 41-45, F
@SW-User it's a gift I have
HarryHawk ยท 61-69, M
Personality heart intelligence looks

But it's difficult to choose between heart and intelligence
PaleandPolluted ยท 36-40, F
@HarryHawk i nearly chose this, but it would be nice to have someone i found physically attractive..
HarryHawk ยท 61-69, M
@PaleandPolluted I know, it's difficult to choose. You can only go with how you feel, but priorities change with age.
Strongtea ยท 22-25, M
Looks, intelligence, heart, personality
Strongtea ยท 22-25, M
Just being honest@Baconrind
Baconrind ยท 36-40, M
@Strongtea Hey, I'm not judging. I find that fascinating because we are so different. Someone's heart is so important to me. Looks means nothing to me on a person woth an ugly heart
Strongtea ยท 22-25, M
I can put up with quite a lot if the person looks/dresses nice. I find that even mean people are a bit nice. My girlf gets called snobby/stuck up but she has really nice moments@Baconrind
Rilyn ยท 31-35, F
The soul essence of someone ๐Ÿ‘€
SW-User
@Rilyn Maybe, more those that live on the fray of your lived life may not need to know how you see love. ๐Ÿคญโค๏ธ I'd never rank for other people how I see someone I love, but I will tell them, whom I love, its those who should know.
Rilyn ยท 31-35, F
@SW-User I'd rather not tell. Its of no use anyway
SW-User
@Rilyn I feel I understand. ๐Ÿค—
SW-User
Personality heart looks intelligence
Baconrind ยท 36-40, M
@SW-User my ranking would be heart, personality, looks, intelligence.

How would you rank yourself?
SW-User
@Baconrind do you mean what do I find most important in myself? Or what is better?
Baconrind ยท 36-40, M
@SW-User I am asking what do you think you are? Would you put yourself in the same order or would it change?
without "personality" the rest of the paragraphs are meaningless

the list is not correct
PaleandPolluted ยท 36-40, F
Personality, heart, looks, intelligence
MyNameIsHurl ยท 41-45, F
Personality, intelligence, heart, looks
ExperienceDLT ยท M
Heart,personality,looks,intelligence
WolfGirlwh0r3 ยท 36-40, T
Personality, heart, intelligence, looks
Amor69Fati ยท 56-60, M
The same way you put it...
SW-User
Heart
Intelligence
Personality
Looks are not important to me
Adogslife ยท 61-69, M
Personality
Heart
Intelligence
Looks

โ€ฆ though at any moment, I feel like I could flip Heart and Intelligence.
Personality, humor, intelligence, looks. What's heart?
Morrigan ยท F
Intelligence, personality, heart, looks
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ViciDraco ยท 41-45, M
Heart
Intelligence
Personality
Looks

Don't get me wrong, looks are still important. But I am far more interested in long term relationships than short term flings. A bad personality can make even the hottest person intolerable to be around. I really prefer being able to connect on an intellectual level. But all the intelligence in the world is wasted on someone who doesn't care deeply about others.
iamonfire696 ยท 41-45, F
Heart
Personality
Intelligence
Looks
Baconrind ยท 36-40, M
@iamonfire696 That was my original one. Recently I have considered having intelligence and looks switched around, however they are both about the same in importance
iamonfire696 ยท 41-45, F
@Baconrind intelligence is important to me but you need somewhat intelligent to have a decent personality.

Either way, looks for me are last.
empanadas ยท 31-35, M
Personality, heart, intelligence and looks. After dating women who I considered really attractive ,I realized most good looking people don't have much to offer besides their looks. Which fades with time

 
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