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Place these four attributes in the order you would want in someone

Heart, intelligence, personality, looks.

Interesting fact, for most people, how they rank what they want is often the same as how they rank themselves. Self love ❤️
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Heart
Looks
Personality
Intelligence
SW-User
Four words, four attributes.
Love reflecting their essence.

I know you are asking for something else, but some of us, don't need the ranking of to other people randomly online... though I would suggest care, empathy, love, compatibility before anything.... (and compatibility is a large word)
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@SW-User I hold many a heart 😄
SW-User
@MyNameIsHurl I'm far from a hippie.... but let's not detract from how you hold hearts. ❤️🙏
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@SW-User it's a gift I have
HarryHawk · 61-69, M
Personality heart intelligence looks

But it's difficult to choose between heart and intelligence
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@HarryHawk i nearly chose this, but it would be nice to have someone i found physically attractive..
HarryHawk · 61-69, M
@PaleandPolluted I know, it's difficult to choose. You can only go with how you feel, but priorities change with age.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
The soul essence of someone 👀
SW-User
@Rilyn Maybe, more those that live on the fray of your lived life may not need to know how you see love. 🤭❤️ I'd never rank for other people how I see someone I love, but I will tell them, whom I love, its those who should know.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I'd rather not tell. Its of no use anyway
SW-User
@Rilyn I feel I understand. 🤗
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Looks, intelligence, heart, personality
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Just being honest@Baconrind
Baconrind · 36-40, M
@Strongtea Hey, I'm not judging. I find that fascinating because we are so different. Someone's heart is so important to me. Looks means nothing to me on a person woth an ugly heart
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I can put up with quite a lot if the person looks/dresses nice. I find that even mean people are a bit nice. My girlf gets called snobby/stuck up but she has really nice moments@Baconrind
SW-User
Personality heart looks intelligence
Baconrind · 36-40, M
@SW-User my ranking would be heart, personality, looks, intelligence.

How would you rank yourself?
SW-User
@Baconrind do you mean what do I find most important in myself? Or what is better?
Baconrind · 36-40, M
@SW-User I am asking what do you think you are? Would you put yourself in the same order or would it change?
without "personality" the rest of the paragraphs are meaningless

the list is not correct
SW-User
Heart
Intelligence
Personality
Looks are not important to me
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Personality, heart, looks, intelligence
Heart,personality,looks,intelligence
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
Personality, intelligence, heart, looks
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
Personality, heart, intelligence, looks
Amor69Fati · 56-60, M
The same way you put it...
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
Personality
Heart
Intelligence
Looks

… though at any moment, I feel like I could flip Heart and Intelligence.
Personality, humor, intelligence, looks. What's heart?
Morrigan · F
Intelligence, personality, heart, looks
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Heart
Intelligence
Personality
Looks

Don't get me wrong, looks are still important. But I am far more interested in long term relationships than short term flings. A bad personality can make even the hottest person intolerable to be around. I really prefer being able to connect on an intellectual level. But all the intelligence in the world is wasted on someone who doesn't care deeply about others.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Heart
Personality
Intelligence
Looks
Baconrind · 36-40, M
@iamonfire696 That was my original one. Recently I have considered having intelligence and looks switched around, however they are both about the same in importance
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Baconrind intelligence is important to me but you need somewhat intelligent to have a decent personality.

Either way, looks for me are last.
empanadas · 31-35, M
Personality, heart, intelligence and looks. After dating women who I considered really attractive ,I realized most good looking people don't have much to offer besides their looks. Which fades with time

 
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