Is he just nice or is there some sort of attraction their? My guy next door neighbor who has a...

I would advise being careful and mindful of appropriate boundaries in this situation. Your neighbor seemingly values his relationship and it would be unwise and inappropriate to pursue anything more than a casual acquaintance connection. Focus on maintaining a respectful neighborly relationship and avoid reading into his actions or making assumptions about his intentions or interest. Unless he directly communicates interest, which seems unlikely and inappropriate in his relationship condition, assume he is just being friendly. It is generally not advisable to become romantically involved with someone who is already in a relationship. The respectful and moral thing to do is appreciate your casual neighborly acquaintance for who he is.

allygator18 · 22-25, F

Wait .I'm on it
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Just being nice

HootyTheNightOwl

If you have to ask... he's not that into you.

A guy who is into you will leave you in no doubt that he's into you.

Cruiser91 · 51-55, M

Probably both.
But you never know what his relationship is like with the girlfriend so .

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Seems no evidence here except being a good neighbour, from the little that you share.

ravenhill · M

sick of hearing about goddamned cats!!

DaddyThomas · 46-50, M

He’s just a nice friendly neighbor

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

It sounds as though you have a nice neighbour who has a nice cat and who shares your interest in cats. You are lucky that the two of you are able to look after one another's cats. Think yourself lucky, and don't try and read anything more into it. You and your neighbour just sound like nice people.

ExperienceDLT · M

He just wants a free cat sitter

eMortal · M

He came to you for the cat. So he’s not shy. If he wants you directly, he would give you a hint. Don’t read too much into his friendliness.
On the other hand, some men are known to use pets to catch girls! 😁 Who knows maybe he’s grooming you to be his next girlfriend!

Adogslife · 61-69, M

I think he’d find you physically attractive if you are physically attractive. If you really want to find out, wear something suggestive the next time the cats play. Men don’t hide their interest well. You’ll know.

Layla07 · 26-30, F

He isn't interested or he wouldn't still have a gf.

Dlrannie · 31-35, F

Quite possibly a bit of both🙂

dale74 · M

Go with innocent intentions first.

therighttothink50 · 56-60, M

There's no there there....

REMsleep · 41-45, F

He might find you attractive but if he hasn't made a move, I don't think that he's interested in cheating