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Is he just nice or is there some sort of attraction their?

My guy next door neighbor who has a cat as do I about a year ago befriended me I guess in some sense. About a few months ago I would see my neighbor outside sometimes and vice versa and he would take his cat outside to play with mine on a few random occasions. Mind you he has had a gf the whole time I’ve known him. One day he randomly knocks on my door and ask me to do him a favor and take care of his cat while he was gone and I said sure. Since than I have taken care of his cat 2 times and I have asked him once to take care of mine. Anywho, the moral of the story is I think he’s really attractive but of course he has a gf and I know my boundaries and I have even met his gf a couple of times and she’s great too.

Anywho I guess my question is since he guy would he find me physically attractive or he just being nice friendly neighbor?

Any honest but respectful opinions wanted please and thanks. :)
Igormarynowski · 36-40, M
I would advise being careful and mindful of appropriate boundaries in this situation. Your neighbor seemingly values his relationship and it would be unwise and inappropriate to pursue anything more than a casual acquaintance connection. Focus on maintaining a respectful neighborly relationship and avoid reading into his actions or making assumptions about his intentions or interest. Unless he directly communicates interest, which seems unlikely and inappropriate in his relationship condition, assume he is just being friendly. It is generally not advisable to become romantically involved with someone who is already in a relationship. The respectful and moral thing to do is appreciate your casual neighborly acquaintance for who he is.
eMortal · M
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@Igormarynowski That is a rather elaborate summation of the situation, but nevertheless right on the button!👍
allygator18 · 22-25, F
Wait .I'm on it
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Just being nice
dale74 · M
@allygator18 that is girl thought process
HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40
If you have to ask... he's not that into you.

A guy who is into you will leave you in no doubt that he's into you.
Cruiser91 · 51-55, M
Probably both.
But you never know what his relationship is like with the girlfriend so .
HatterM · 46-50, M
Seems no evidence here except being a good neighbour, from the little that you share.
ravenhillofKrull · 46-50, MVIP
sick of hearing about goddamned cats!!
DaddyThomas · 41-45, M
He’s just a nice friendly neighbor
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
It sounds as though you have a nice neighbour who has a nice cat and who shares your interest in cats. You are lucky that the two of you are able to look after one another's cats. Think yourself lucky, and don't try and read anything more into it. You and your neighbour just sound like nice people.
He just wants a free cat sitter
eMortal · M
He came to you for the cat. So he’s not shy. If he wants you directly, he would give you a hint. Don’t read too much into his friendliness.
On the other hand, some men are known to use pets to catch girls! 😁 Who knows maybe he’s grooming you to be his next girlfriend!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I think he’d find you physically attractive if you are physically attractive. If you really want to find out, wear something suggestive the next time the cats play. Men don’t hide their interest well. You’ll know.
Layla07 · 26-30, F
He isn't interested or he wouldn't still have a gf.
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
Quite possibly a bit of both🙂
dale74 · M
Go with innocent intentions first.
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
There's no there there....
REMsleep · 41-45, F
He might find you attractive but if he hasn't made a move, I don't think that he's interested in cheating

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