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Yknow what’s really, powerfully sexy?

It’s not one’s face. Or body parts.

If that is all you want, there is always someone bigger, longer, curvier, prettier, more muscular, taller, slimmer, etc.

What makes someone powerfully sexy is their presence.

Either they have it or they don’t.
Either you feel it or you don’t.

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Degbeme · 70-79, M

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Lilymoon · F

@Degbeme Looks good... with cream cheese?

Degbeme · 70-79, M

@Lilymoon But of course.

Lilymoon · F

@Degbeme 😋

ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

So true. I am more drawn to a person based on their vibe than their physical appearance, but if I find them physically attractive, too, that’s a definite plus. 😄

CookieCrumbs · F

@ChampagneOnIce
Who’s complaining if they’re physically attractive too?!🤭

But yeah…. I like the word you used: “vibe” ….. you’d sense it when you spend more time with them….

Zonuss · 41-45, M

Now you're speaking my language. 🙂
It is their presence. It is their energy.
No two women are the same. No two men are the same. So you get something new from everyone who crosses your path. But I admit there are some who just touch you in some kind of way. Know what I mean. ✨🙂✨

CookieCrumbs · F

@Zonuss
A person can be visually appealing , but I still wouldn’t find them sexy because of other factors that are there (behaviour) or NOT there…

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@CookieCrumbs Exactly.

Slade · 56-60, M

A fun loving, breezy, adventurous gal who loves to laugh is 1,000 times sexier than a mannequin model.

As kong as she doesn't look like Gollum

Riverman2 · 56-60, M

Agreed. Sexiness definitely begins in the mind.

CookieCrumbs · F

@Riverman2
Sadly, the people who don’t get that start and focus only with the body parts.

Riverman2 · 56-60, M

@CookieCrumbs True. Of course a pretty body is pleasant to look at. But it is the thoughts and character of the mind that either repels or attracts. With the right connection it becomes so intense that your inner self craves and longs to be in their presence. You are very wise Cookie.

CookieCrumbs · F

@Riverman2
A pleasant exterior is always welcome.

But the attraction can only be sustained if there is something of substance to keep the interaction interesting.

I like how you put it:

With the right connection it becomes so intense that your inner self craves and longs to be in their presence.

SweetMae · 70-79, F

I agree. What good are looks if you can't have a little adventerous fun.

Skippyskiptic · 41-45, M

It's all about confidence without being a dick.

CookieCrumbs · F

@Skippyskiptic
Confidence (without being a big dck) is one factor. But I don’t think that’s enough.

Skippyskiptic · 41-45, M

@CookieCrumbs all the things that go with being confident. Working on yourself. Being a good person. Having your own interests. Being vulnerable without being weak. Kindness. All of that makes you a confident person.

CestManan · 46-50, F

I think most people then just do not have it.

CookieCrumbs · F

@CestManan
What makes you say that?😅

CestManan · 46-50, F

@CookieCrumbs You do have a point about people trying too hard to be sexy.

I may not be the best one to judge though because Most people just do not impress me, I guess my "drive" is not real strong these days.

I think this guy probably has it if he is actually this handsome.

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