If you don't feel that you feel attraction at all is that wrong ?
I'm starting to wonder if this is my problem - that I just can't feel true deep attraction bonding in a romantic/erotic/intimate sense and that's why i find no need or want to have friends (like women do) where I'd be exposed to (hopefully) interesting people and no need or want for a romantic/intimate/sexual relationship anymore and no desire to consider getting married if I was lucky enough to have such a relationship.
Also perhaps why I cannot 'get' the understanding of automatic 'attraction' to a woman as being 'sexually appealing' and find that I am deeply frightened/scared in any situation where I find I'm admiring a woman I see out and about and feel repulsed by that viewpoint.
The simplest way to explain it is that I can't seem to understand human social interaction in a '3d' sense - only in a '2d' sense.
Also perhaps why I cannot 'get' the understanding of automatic 'attraction' to a woman as being 'sexually appealing' and find that I am deeply frightened/scared in any situation where I find I'm admiring a woman I see out and about and feel repulsed by that viewpoint.
The simplest way to explain it is that I can't seem to understand human social interaction in a '3d' sense - only in a '2d' sense.