I get depressed when I realize

So rock what God gave you girl......

The other day you mentioned some Uber dude checking out your bustline..... so he doesn't meet your definition of repulsed .... does he?

And you've mentioned before that you have a hot boyfriend.... so obviously he isn't "repulsed" either.... is he?

IMO...the thing is: everyone has a shape that they naturally seek out, some like thin anorexic's, some go for big busts, some go for big butts....the list is endless. Throw in cultures of Asians, Blacks, Blasians, Hispanics, Whites and so forth...... and the "types and shapes" that people prefer become endless combinations.

I'm just happy that my S/O apparently likes old guys with gray hair and a dad bod..... LOL

Well, I agree, that I'm not most men, so I can't speak for the others. I can however, tell you that my tastes in women, tend to be in the plus side. Taller than me, heavier than me, curvy. Strong personality, self-confident,
Even intimidating. Why, I'm not sure, but i guessing that it compliments my own sense of who I am, and my own personal style...
But I digress.
You are very attractive, alluring, and very much my type. (Not a come-on)
Yeah, they say, to each their own, but repulsed? Never. Not possible. If one guy, or a few, told you that, they were lying to your face. It's just not possible. Now getting depressed because of your body self-image, I can understand it. When you wonder, what does he really see in me? You look into your mirror, and you just don't see. Depression looking back at you, not even blinking...
I understand.


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Most men also don't understand the basics of women's reproductive health or its anatomy, so most men's opinions on bodies in general can't be trusted.

"most" is a stretch. I bet it's a lot less than you think. Can't account for all, but give yourself more credit

Both of my brothers are vocal about not liking women who look like me. Then people try to convince me I look fine. 🙄

You need serious slaps ...your bf likes you tens of guy's here have said you are sexy ...now only thing men can do for you is replace Donald trump with you

I have a hard time believing men are repulsed by women like you.
I do believe you get depressed when you think they are, though. 😔

It makes me so sad when I see you being this hard on yourself 🥺 you're gorgeous I promise

You had an Uber driver cream his pants at you the other day.. you are the shizz!!

Bullshit.

I think you look great

You THINK most men are repulsed, but thoughts are not facts. How many times has a man told you he was repulsed?

you are a very good looking woman and you can use what you have , A lot of us like big girls :)

I understand how you feel. You are beautiful though 💖