Why do some people look at gorgeous/attractive people and say how sexy and beautiful/handsome they are but go for average partners?

For me there has to be an attraction in a healthy relationship. I mean NO attraction, NO relationship or chemistry. I mean personality is important too.
When my two friends and I were in high school, we were CRAZY over one direction back then! Also I was drooling for Taylor Lautner from twilight. I wanted to date him but I knew it was impossible. I was just dumb and naive. But my two friends ended up with average looking guys which is nothing wrong with that. I’m very happy for them and they are gentlemen to them.
Why do some people drool over good looking people but settle for average parters?

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SW-User

Because some people prefer to live in the real world not in a world of delusion.

Another part of the delusion is that many average looking women think they are hot stuff when they're really not. Maybe your friends are just as average as their average partners.

Let me ask you a question. How many men would pick you over a hot super model if they had the option?

ElizabethBabe1994 · 31-35, F

@SW-User Reality sucks but it’s better than fake.
None would chose me over a hot model.

SW-User

@ElizabethBabe1994 The reality of most men is that the majority of us aren't even attractive to most women. Women prefer to look the way of 20percent of men. These men don't even have to be good men, just good looking men. So yeah, reality sucks. Wee know and live with it every day