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Is a women devalued after having two children?

My friend has two young children with the same man. Today she told me she is scared to leave (an abusive relationship) as she feels she is now devalued because of her children. What are your thoughts on this? I still think she should leave either way because being alone would be better then the abuse she is going through.
Miram · 31-35, F
That shouldn't be her priority.
She has children so she should be focused on providing them with healthy non abusive environment.
Ontheroad · M
She might in the eyes of a few be off limits because she has children, but who the hell wants to be with a guy who uses that as a qualifier.

If she is being abused she needs to get out and do it now. She, when she is ready will find any number of men who will love her and her children. Around 80% of divorced men remarry and that means around a half million eligible men are added to the single population each year. No way she can't/won't find a mate because she has two children.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Not in my book. Yet no women would have me anyway. Heck even my own mother said that despite being drunk at the time.

Note she did let me take care of her for years before she passed away. I was the only one of four that would.
ABCDEF7 · M
A woman is not a product that should be valued. A life is a life, and every life is invaluable. She also should value her life than social scenario.
Melbell · 31-35, F
I agree tottally!
SW-User
She should leave.

 
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