I think being too attractive can be trouble.

I'm conventionally attractive and I've had men avoid me because society (where I live) taints the image of men who are friends with "attractive" women. Or so I perceive. It always confused me as to why I had no admirers because I've been told so many times how beautiful/pretty I am. It just... Doesn't make sense. I've never ever ever been approached by a man to ask me out on a date. And I've tried to express my feelings to a certain acquaintance (who was and is also single) and only got rejected. Pretty privilege is such a myth. But yes charisma privilege is real. I'm not charismatic. I fall more into the "cute and innocent" category. Which doesn't really turn men on. I have less conventionally "attractive" women around me who are able to utilize their seductive charisma to get favors from men at work. But the same favors are not given to me because I don't know how to be seductive. I try to watch and learn but I just realized many women just naturally and unintentionally have charisma. So yeah it's not about being conventionally pretty it's really about how se.xy you are.