Alicia23 · 22-25, F
We are, and our beauty is determined by significant factors!
Fauxmyope2 · 31-35, F
Thank you for feeling this way and publicly stating this.
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1pebbles · 56-60, F
Personality, confidence and attitude
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@1pebbles though I lack in confidence not sure about attitude
1pebbles · 56-60, F
@QuietEd2019 with proper encouragement those skills can be developed
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@1pebbles that’s true 🥰🥰🥰
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
When a young heterosexual man says he values a woman mainly for her personality and not her looks, I get suspicious. It would be the first time in history, I think, or at least the first time my own 73 years.
If a man says this, he is either lying to me or, even worse, lying to himself.
Yes, personality certainly counts with many men, but looks are what is generally valued above all else.
If a man says this, he is either lying to me or, even worse, lying to himself.
Yes, personality certainly counts with many men, but looks are what is generally valued above all else.
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@greenmountaingal personality can either enhance or reduce how beautiful someone seems to be I would sooner go for someone less good looking with a lovely sweet caring friendly personality than I would for a physically very beautiful woman with a mean bitchy greedy personality who would use me as a doormat and for any money she can get...
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@QuietEd2019 I didn't say personality didn't count, only that it is never the main thing with men.
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@greenmountaingal fair enough I still find personality very important all the same

SW-User
Personality is key in any relationship
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@SW-User agreed

SW-User
It's a two way street?
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@SW-User yeah definitely two way street guys need a good personality too give and take or you asking if a bad personality makes someone less attractive? also definitely true
Fauxmyope2 · 31-35, F
TY!
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Fauxmyope2 you’re always welcome 🙏🥰🥰🥰
Smidke · 26-30, F
I'm glad you see it more than skindeep
Ximenajacoba · 26-30, F
What really defines a woman for you, apart from the obvious?
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Ximenajacoba good question in this as a straight guy I would mean someone born female gender two XX chromosomes for who I find beautiful
Ximenajacoba · 26-30, F
@QuietEd2019 ….and?
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Ximenajacoba and what?
Reflection2 · M
What about the complications?
Justlookin · 51-55, M
The older I get the more I like to look at women of all ages and sizes
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Justlookin all women are beautiful that's for sure
Ximenajacoba · 26-30, F
Do you talk to many of us?
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Ximenajacoba is that a loaded question? I talk to a few yes 😳
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Every time a guy tells me he doesn't care about looks, I find out he's got some really bizarre sex fetish or wants to engage in some sexual activities no one else wants to engage in. He assumes that since I am old and fat, I must be desperate and therefore willing to put up with his perversions.
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@greenmountaingal I am sorry to hear that 🤔 I don’t appreciate that a lot of your replies to this post are seeking to call me a liar 😒
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@QuietEd2019 Of course I don't think you are a liar. But I am cynical about men who say that looks are not important in a woman given my own experience with this. Maybe my experience is not as typical as I believe. In other words, I might be mistaken but I am not lying about my own perceptions; and I assume you are not lying but speaking of your own perceptions as well. Sorry if I gave you the impression that I thought you were lying. I think you are sincere, but I don't think most men think that way about women. To most men, looks are pretty much everything.
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@greenmountaingal thank you for clearing that up ☺️☺️☺️ I appreciate it 🥰 I agree that your experience whilst hopefully not typical is unfortunately from the most vocal side... as with a lot of issues it is the most vocal ones that get noticed hence terrorism amongst a minority of extremists whom the majority of 1billion muslims would denounce as going against the teachings of their faith, the same as terrorist Christian groups don’t represent the beliefs and values of 2Billion Christians. I would like to believe that there are Significantly more men who would not go solely based on looks, but also value a person’s personality and intelligence, than there are who have as you said only care about looks or are sexual deviants with horrendous fetishes. I am sorry that when it comes to online it’s the deviants and ones that only go for looks that seem to be most numerous 🥺
you value personality hmm intresting the first message I got off you was what was my breast size
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@Messyfun11436 i am sorry about that though I do genuinely value personality I know I am majorly flawed
SINAI · T
Wtf am I supposed to do with it? I can't fuck her personality.
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@SINAI so you only go on looks not personality and intelligence?
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@SINAI This is a crude,lewd,rude comment! Unfortunately, it's also the truth. I commend you for telling it like it is.
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BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
Cheers for the heart
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@BigGuy2 messaging people who say message me to roleplay or have chat asking anything, you do so and no response like why claim to want something they apparently don’t
BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@QuietEd2019 exact same issues I've come across
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@BigGuy2 indeed I don’t understand it myself
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