Shared my wife with another man

My wife and I have been married for 15 years, she is 40 and I’m 57. it has always been a Fantasy of mine to share her with another man. We had our opportunity this weekend, It was a little difficult to surrender to see another man with my wife, but as it went on, it was hot and I enjoyed it immensely. I waited for him to get there first, then reclaimed her with mine. He was super nice and respectful of are boundaries and I loved watching another man inside her. My wife is hot and super sexy and it’s what I alway wanted to do for her, double her pleasure. she was blindfolded at her request and said she had fun. A day after I started having weird feelings about sharing her, and I can’t get the night out of my mind.. I keep replaying it over and over, and I have some videos that I still watch. When o watch them I get this weird jealousy inside me.Is this normal??

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VeronicaJane

Many men have that fantasy. But be careful what you wish for, fantasy does not always match reality.

If you haven't done so, its very important to discuss this with your wife. Discuss how she felt and what you are feeling. Was this a one off? What if she wants to do it again, but you don't? What is in bounds and what it is out. Are friends or acquaintances allowable? Would you want to go to a sex/lifestyle club?

Some men are fine with this and find it really hot. Many men end up with hurt feelings.bruised egos - especially if she cums harder, is more carnal, or does things with another man that she won't do with her hubby/bf.

Communication is vital. Just remember, you opened this "door", which will never really close again. Some couples decide not to do it again, but then the hubby/bf is left wondering if she is doing something behind his back, to avoid hurting his feelings. You may have awakened a tigress, hope you can live with that.