If all girls were 'EASY', would that really be a good thing?

I think it shouldn't be that hard if you like someone and the feeling is mutual.

couldn't be any worse than the way things are now... 🤔

I respect everyone's choices ofc but yeah, it'd generally be a good thing if men & women were roughly equivalent in their willingness to have sex. When it comes down to it, sex is an infinite resources and despite that, straight dudes invest a ton of time and energy into obtaining it thanks to supply & demand. Leveling the playing field would cut out a lot of that work, thus making the system more efficient.

Also, the means some of them resort to are really duplicitous and gross, it'd be nice to have a lot less of that shit in the world.

In my younger days it was challenging and frustrating. In my 30s it was a lot easier and I took full advantage, Now in my 60s it's challenging again and I wish I were back in my 30s when it was easy.

Personally that term sl*t was designed to be derogatory to insult women into being religious.

Shaming is well known religious practice even with the puritans with the scarlet letter.

There is no one type of person much less one type of woman.

Yet to say EVERY woman should accept every male is as well doing the same exact type of thing.

There is a choice involved with everyone. Both male and female.

Not being critical of others is the key here. It's tied into this situation of sex.

The whole society is in bad need of being changed to be far more accepting of others differences.

Not coercion of others to behave in just one widely accepted way.

Why I believe marriage as a legal institution should be abolished.

Keep all government out of it.

Pointless question. Sex between two people (or more if you wish) should be a mutual decision. If they both want it then there’s no problem. If only one wants it and the other doesn’t then too bad, it shouldn’t happen.

It doesn’t matter whether you are thinking about a spouse to have lifetime sex with, or a new relationship that may or may not work out, or friends with benefits, or simply a casual one night stand … whatever if you are both in agreement it’s fine and if you’re not it’s not.

So if this guy says getting laid should be easier it just means he’s not attractive to the women he is attracted to. That’s his problem not anyone else’s.

If you think about it in terms of evolution it makes sense - each species has developed ways to separate the wheat from the chaff as it were so the better genes tend to succeed over the others. This doesn't usually happen in a visible way in the short term but is more subtle.

In humans there is a desire from the specimens who self identify as the better ones to not only out-compete their peers in terms of having progeny but to also make it harder for their peers to do this- I reckon [based on no more thought than what it took to write this!] that the concept of "slut-shaming" is just an expression of this desire to out-compete, likewise other behaviours like "cock-blocking" have similar motivation.

It's quite likely that the people expressing these views don't really understand why they are doing it - they are probably baked into our DNA and manifest as feelings or intuition. [In much the same way that all humans (ok ,not all but pretty much all) find the smell of sewage as repellant, or can recognise faces in things automatically].

I made my fiancé work really, really hard for sex the first time. After that, it was much easier for him to get some.

Doesn’t matter to me, as I’m gay. 🌈 🍆

I worked with a lady who had a sign by her desk that said “I’m not playing hard to get....I AM hard to get”.

I honestly have no idea if it would be better. Better for whom?

At the end of the day, here are my thoughts on the matter.

1) A woman who wants to have a lot of sex should not feel ashamed for saying yes a lot of even pursuing it herself.
2) A woman that does not want to have a lot of sex or is very selective about her partners should not feel ashamed for saying no or turning people down.

Sex is a deeply personal choice and we should be respecting the choices that informed and consenting adults make for themselves in regards to it.

No , I love watching the show that some girls put on to get attention but I also love the challenge and excitement of playing the game of old fashioned dating . Just my opinion.

It's a personal choice and "thought" or "theory" driven into society brains that if a woman is free sexually, she is a slut. To each their own.

People should live as in hey want, no shaming, it’s a question of respect
What do we call a make that sleeps with every woman?
Is he also an easy lay?
Is he a slut?

While it is easy for a woman to have sex it is also easier for her to get assaulted or raped. Women have to be more on guard

it should be easier for women too without being labeled slut
it should be easier for everyone who is not getting enough or any at all

It shouldn’t be just easy… especially if you two are trying to build something together… why would I want to build a kingdom with a fucking whore… no thanks… gonna have everybody in my shit….

But if you are EZ yes… if I like your body and face… and you like mine…. We fucking but am I thinking of building something with you…. No.

It's a personal choice to decide

Respect is the key 🔐

If all girls were "easy" then the guys would be the ones that would be hard to get and throw the social stuff in complete reverse of what it currently is...

What a ridiculous concept, getting laid is easy.

Getting laid is easy… maybe not for him though 😜

Just be yourself

Why is a woman a slut if she likes having sex easily