Oh poo. Who are u anyway? Look at a movie called "Say Anything". Think about how intelligent that valedictorian really is from her words, listen to what she says. Then think about real life and imagine that John Cusack character being hounded by an ordinary plain looking girl that nobody else wants. He's cute all right but in real life what do u think he would do if some ordinary girl started pestering him when he had lots of other choices?
Love is a calculating thing...like the economic market... we just get what we can and plan the rest, usually unsuccessfully.