How Feminine are you?

Poll - Total Votes: 37

Women ye Femininity is important to me?

Men is Femininity important to you in a wife / Girlfriend

Men no feminity Is not of importance in my wife / girlfriend

You can only vote on one answer.

Listed below is a Wiki description of Femininity.
Obviously depending on whether whether or not one was male or female they may a different idea entirely.

The question on how important, or unimportant feminity is in a female. Crossed my mind recently when I was confronted with the fact ,

( party stemming from another SW question)

That if I am honest..I no longer enjoyed meeting with certain women acquaintances, largely because their lack of feminity .. actually annoy s me.

I e Over swearing, being happy to challengeing a Man/ Woman , by squaring up to them. Not regularly styling ,brushing , combing, their hair, not wearing earrings , perfume. Or changing their wardrobe seasonally.
Wearing even a little bit make up , summer skirts and dresses I could go on .. but I think I've laid the foundation

And when I compared those women - to the ladies whose company I Really do Enjoy - the difference came down to their possessing typically ( if not more than the usual) feminine traits

Obviously this isn't about cutting down women who possess a balance of both feminine and male traits .

Or are simply to busy to care about these things .It's just suddenly 'personal 'realisation on my part my 🥺

So the wiki definition is this.. Reading I would comfortably say I processed all of these traits .

However is this all there is to being a feminine woman or is something missing 🤔

"Traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted, and understanding have been cited as stereotypically feminine.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org › wiki"

MrCane · 56-60, M

An interesting post and I must confess that I have given a lot of thought to this subject myself.

For the most part I share your thoughts on the definition of femininity and my pet peeve these days is that so many women seldom if ever wear a skirt or dress. For me there is always a "tomboy" element about trousers and a skirt or dress always looks so much more elegant and feminine. I recognize that the days when women usually wore skirts (or indeed had to wear them) are gone and will never return but that just makes me more appreciative of women who do regularly wear a skirt or dress because they really stand out in these days of dreary androgyny. So to take an example, my preference will always be to be served by a lady wearing a skirt or dress in a restaurant and while I would never be uncivil to another waitress wearing trousers, I will not tip her anything like as generously than her female colleague wearing a skirt or dress. Likewise, I could never see myself dating a woman who always wears trousers or jeans because I just find it so unladylike and unattractive and that would immediately indicate to me that we are incompatible.

I recognize that a lot of women will brand me a superficial sexist for thinking that way, but my view is that just as women have a choice about wearing skirts or trousers, men have a choice when it comes to how you like a lady to dress and the extent to which you choose to engage on a social level with a woman who dresses in a way that you really dislike.