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How Feminine are you?

Poll - Total Votes: 37
Women ye Femininity is important to me?
Men is Femininity important to you in a wife / Girlfriend
Men no feminity Is not of importance in my wife / girlfriend
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Listed below is a Wiki description of Femininity.
Obviously depending on whether whether or not one was male or female they may a different idea entirely.

The question on how important, or unimportant feminity is in a female. Crossed my mind recently when I was confronted with the fact ,

( party stemming from another SW question)

That if I am honest..I no longer enjoyed meeting with certain women acquaintances, largely because their lack of feminity .. actually annoy s me.

I e Over swearing, being happy to challengeing a Man/ Woman , by squaring up to them. Not regularly styling ,brushing , combing, their hair, not wearing earrings , perfume. Or changing their wardrobe seasonally.
Wearing even a little bit make up , summer skirts and dresses I could go on .. but I think I've laid the foundation

And when I compared those women - to the ladies whose company I Really do Enjoy - the difference came down to their possessing typically ( if not more than the usual) feminine traits

Obviously this isn't about cutting down women who possess a balance of both feminine and male traits .

Or are simply to busy to care about these things .It's just suddenly 'personal 'realisation on my part my 🥺

So the wiki definition is this.. Reading I would comfortably say I processed all of these traits .

However is this all there is to being a feminine woman or is something missing 🤔

"Traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted, and understanding have been cited as stereotypically feminine.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org › wiki"
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Gloomy · F
[quote]Over swearing, being happy to challengeing a Man/ Woman , by squaring up to them. Not regularly styling ,brushing , combing, their hair, not wearing earrings , perfume. Or changing their wardrobe seasonally.[/quote]

Since this does describe me I guess I am not stereotypically female. I do have an issue with stereotypes in general.

Nurturance, sensitivity, supportiveness, being gentle and warm, being helpful and understanding, empathy, being emotional,... all good traits that should just be considered human traits. That these traits are associated with feminity is a serious societal problem we should all work together to fix.

Passivity and modesty are very unhealthy traits in my opinion and have been used as an argument against equal rights for women.