sounds yummy--to love others, one must learn to love and accept yourself as you are--you are lovable and loved!! And the silly societal norms of perfect beauty are really fantasy land...few of us are perfect, and if they are, they have other flaws! Love what you have.
@Lilred2289 Yes! It is not my idea. For years people told me that, and I resisted--i had low self esteem...but finally I started to do it, using meditation , mantras and tantra, and it is so true!!!
I'm glad you embrace the weight gain as you should! 💖
I lost a ton, not by choice, and looked terrible. I've finally put some back on enough to where I "glow" again. Tbh though, my best physical feature was my (*) (*)'s and I miss them.😥🤭
Go for it whatever you've got. I never had much in the curve department especially not in the 'good places' :) - nearly all of us are unhappy with our bodies at some stage of our lives then with luck we learn to love what we got.
I thought that something major had changed, like you gaining 80lbs of additions like Jowls, Elephant Thighs, Back Fat Folds, Bra Bulges and Underarm Fat Wings.
There is nothing wrong with having a little extra junk in the trunk. Just like there is nothing wrong with being a size 0 or a size 12. Living a life where being ashamed of your body is the norm is not a way to live – look to your curves as a powerful tool.
Since you love you curves and your weight mostly goes to your curves, have you ever considered intentionally gaining weight to grow your curves even curvier?