I Am Curvy, Not Fat

My aunt got after me for not working out, making excuses and being lazy and eating junk food.
Her words hurt me and I can't stop thinking about them.
I am not fat. Curvy is IN.
My doctor got brutally blunt about my weight and said I have a chose either lose the damn weight or get another doctor that will put up with my misery living with diabetes for the rest of my life.
I am 280lbs. I'm 5'9 so tall people carry weight better. I'm not fat. I haven't spoken my aunt since last week. I'm so angry at her but she don't care.