I Am Curvy, Not Fat

My aunt got after me for not working out, making excuses and being lazy and eating junk food.
Her words hurt me and I can't stop thinking about them.
I am not fat. Curvy is IN.
My doctor got brutally blunt about my weight and said I have a chose either lose the damn weight or get another doctor that will put up with my misery living with diabetes for the rest of my life.
I am 280lbs. I'm 5'9 so tall people carry weight better. I'm not fat. I haven't spoken my aunt since last week. I'm so angry at her but she don't care.

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SW-User

I'm 5'8, male and weigh 166lbs? Weight is hardly an issue in my mind as I've always been able to maintain (almost) no matter what I do.

Women typically way less than men at a given height. I don't want to know entirely you are fighting, but your doctors and families advice is not unkind or hurtful *towards* you.

I understand how you might feel hurt.

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PoppyLoveLala · F

@SW-User I guess.

SW-User

@PoppyLoveLala explore what they are - and if you don't find yourself liking them, try something else, something will jive with you.

PoppyLoveLala · F

@SW-User thanks

midnightsun · 26-30, M

READ

PoppyLoveLala · F

@midnightsun um ......I'm not 703lbs

midnightsun · 26-30, M

@PoppyLoveLala last line

PoppyLoveLala · F

@midnightsun oh.....

Gemi30 · 36-40, F

She wants to see you healthier. What's wrong with that? Do you want to be healthier?

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Gemi30 · 36-40, F

@PoppyLoveLala please dont feel worse than you already do. Take small steps for a bigger goal!!

PoppyLoveLala · F

@Gemi30 How can I? She is brutal and harsh. She could have said it in a better way. Losing weight takes time. My doctor called me fat and yelled at me for lying.

Gemi30 · 36-40, F

I don't know about that doctor..sounds like people just don't care about mental health where you're from

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