I Am Curvy, Not Fat My aunt got after me for not working out, making excuses and being lazy and...

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My aunt got after me for not working out, making excuses and being lazy and eating junk food. Her words hurt me and I can't stop thinking about them. I am not fat. Curvy is IN. My doctor got brutally blunt about my weight and said I have a chose...

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Gemi30 · 36-40, F

She wants to see you healthier. What's wrong with that? Do you want to be healthier?

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Gemi30 · 36-40, F

@PoppyLoveLala please dont feel worse than you already do. Take small steps for a bigger goal!!

PoppyLoveLala · F

@Gemi30 How can I? She is brutal and harsh. She could have said it in a better way. Losing weight takes time. My doctor called me fat and yelled at me for lying.

Gemi30 · 36-40, F

I don't know about that doctor..sounds like people just don't care about mental health where you're from

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I'm 5'8, male and weigh 166lbs? Weight is hardly an issue in my mind as I've always been able to maintain (almost) no matter what I do.

Women typically way less than men at a given height. I don't want to know entirely you are fighting, but your doctors and families advice is not unkind or hurtful *towards* you.

I understand how you might feel hurt.