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This woman on Reddit is obsessed with me 😑

She’s nice, fun to talk to, and she’s cute, lol. She’s made it perfectly clear that she finds me attractive, and I’m fine with that so long as she’s respectful, which she has been… But idk how to tell her she gets exhausting at times without sounding like a jerk.
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It sounds like she really enjoys you, which honestly says a lot about the kind of person you are. My advice would be to just be gently honest with her. Something like telling her you enjoy talking with her but sometimes you need a little space or quiet time so you don’t get socially drained. If she’s as nice as you say, she’ll probably respect that. Boundaries don’t make you a jerk — they’re just part of keeping friendships healthy. And the fact you’re worried about hurting her feelings already shows you care. 💕
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
Tell her how you feel about her, that you enjoy her, but let her know you get exhausted and need to rest. It's honest and it's the truth. (Isn't it?) Hopefully she responds favorably.
faery · F
Imo, you'll have to be exhausted or hurt some feelings, no in between... probably

 
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