Why can't women accept the standards they require men to meet being reflected back on them? 8-)

Such as saying a woman must be a certain height, or have a certain sized bust, or have a certain sized bank account, a particular body type/shape, habits related to smoking and drinking, whether or not a person has narcissistic personality disorder, whether a woman actually has a job and can already pay her own way and support her own children and pay her rent or mortgage without expecting the other person to 'fund' their lifestyle, support kids that aren't his, become her personal 'cash cow', etc.?

8-)

It triggers the 'this does not compute' response, and out comes the insults like there's a male loneliness epidemic, the man must be gay, etc...