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Women, would I be wrong if I did this to her?

We are going through something. She wants time and space. She wants to meet Friday and chill. If I kissed her on the forehead, would that be okay?
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Kae20 · 61-69, FVIP
A kiss on the forehead is the most sincere & respectful way to demonstrate true affection for another

However if it's under valued if you ask for permission. Signalling that your own self doubt that you are on the same emotional wavelength (hence I suppose your question whether to ask )


(My husband does this spontaneously at any given time .. there is ' no asking first')

I would wait until you can't resist a spontaneous urge to do so .This way you will be Uber sure . The kiss will not feel strange for either of you.

Also I very much agree with everyone else if anyone tells you that they need more space.. believe them . People won't tell you this if they don't mean it.

Let her be ... If later on down the line she changes her mind you'll be the first to know.
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
Need more context. Is this a gf or recent acquaintance?
Typically the "need more space" means she's bored of you and wants to explore her options.
You might come across as needy if you do too much for her at this point.
Denden · 26-30, M
@easterniowegin it was originally she needs 2 days of more time but I kept messaging her about our issues and now she needs space. It looks to me like she is exploring her options. And also, she is leaning more towards friendship now. But still hope of a relationship
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
@Denden yeah, don't keep messaging a girl. Ever.
Be quick to shut her off...make her miss you. If you're too pushy, available, needy, it will push her away.
You need to be the calm, stable one.
Denden · 26-30, M
@easterniowegin that was my mistake I didn’t do that.
spice1 · M
One thing I've learned when your girlfriend or wife tells you they need time and space it usually means they want to see other people, which is really the start of a permanent break up.
Denden · 26-30, M
@spice1 I am probably the first guy she cheated on with and now she’s painting me as the reason why in her head despite knowing now that her reason was false and I was misunderstood. She never came to me about it, only ran and entertained someone else. She said she doesn’t feel guilty.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
If she needs space, why are you getting together?

“Needing space” is typically a bad sign. Be careful you don’t get hurt.
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔...........If she whats space, that probably means emotionally and physically.........don't push it.......
dale74 · M
Have you already accepted to be there if not tell her you have plans
SW-User
...if someone wants space..... definitely do not try to kiss them... That would be counterproductive
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
I personally don't like to be touched when I'm upset but that's just me. You should just ask her Friday so you don't overstep her boundaries.
sweetdream · 22-25, F
If I were you, instead of a kiss on the forehead, I would give her a deadline in which she can decide in which direction the relationship is going...
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Would that be ok ? Here yourself ? Your leaving her run your life .
And I promise you and I mean I promise you if there’s any more conditions out on that relationship, your gonna be heading for some pain .
You be fucked all together . Suicidal thoughts if you leave it go further I’ve being there and do you know what you loose ‘ Your man hood ‘ and trying to get back from that is no laughing joke .
Trust me on that one . You be on your own and she’ll jump on to someone else with a flicker of a switch cause you’ll realise painfully that you weren’t that important as you think you were in the relationship.
I promise you that .
Watch out for conditions in a relationship. There’s something seriously wrong .
She should either dump you and you save pain or conditions and have pain and insecurity for a long time which hell on earth .
She should be straight out with you or you straight out with her .
I swear I wouldn’t be saying this to you cause I’ve been there myself and the pain wasn’t nice when the break up comes over all conditions and that bull shit .
She’s playing hard with you or else the affection isn’t there no more and if so she should dump you for u not to be in pain for years and leaving a relationship go on that won’t work out .
Trust me on that .
You probably won’t like what I’m saying if your attached in the relationship. You probably will end up not liking me cause I had a friend who said the exact same thing to me on what I told you and she was right if I listened .
Would of saved me years of pain .
I ended up suffering bad in it and out of it for a year and half of suicidal torture .
Just watch conditions in a relationship.
That scares the shit out of me when I hear that .
SW-User
It wouldn't hurt to try. Otherwise kiss her on the cheek
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Kiss her on the back of the head first, it's less confrontational
Just meet her on Friday and don’t fucking touch her until she says it’s okay.

 
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