I Love White Men

I'm a white man but its ok if your not attracted to me.

Thank you

Really interesting post. I think that, by definition, it is a "racist" preference because it is based purely on race. But is it wrong? Or "bad"?

Well, some say guys prefer blondes and if we limit this to natural blondes, then we are eliminating huge swaths of the human genomic and racial diversity. So again, this would be a racist preference. But is it wrong?

Clearly, you have the right to be with whoever you want and certainly people have preferences (tall, short, thin, muscular, long hair, short hair, light skin, dark skin) and some of these preferences have racial alignments. Maybe this is one particular racist feeling that isn't wrong? Idk.

Let me ask you a question... Do you prefer light colored skin? Is that what your underlying preference is? For example, a white guy of Mediterranean ancestry (Spanish, Italian, etc) who spends a lot of time in the sun could be quite dark in skin tone. Would this be a turn-off to you?

I’ve actually read that favoring particular physical traits over others is prejudiced. If you think about it, there are lots of attractive people in the world and not all white people possess physical attraction. 😛 I tend to date white people as well but I think it has more to do with familiarity than anything else. I used to think that I might be racist too but I realize now that I am open to dating people with various kinds of traits and different cultural backgrounds. I would like to point out that physical attributes aren’t everything. (You may be cheating yourself.) Also your friends may just be jealous or put off by your choices and not interested in your welfare.😐 ...I think the answer lies in the reason/s behind your preference/s. I would recommend you look there.

Having a preference is not racist... Belittling others for their race is racist.

If you only find white guys attractive then that's just how you are.

Hell, that would be like saying it was sexist for straight people not finding members of the same sex attractive.

It [b]is[/b] racist, because it is based specifically on [b]race[/b] that you exclude other men. That said, you have the right to use whatever guidelines you wish in choosing your partner. It’s your business and no one else’s, really.

OMG people don't go so deep it's just a physical preference she's stating nothing more

You seem to be basing your preferences solely on skin colour?

Your choice is shallow! But nature is not such a poor to have only white skin.😀