We were in public and he took my hand to hold hands, I said politely and in a positive/silly voice that I thought it was too early to be holding hands

He instantly became weird and upsetish (passive aggressive) and was weird for the rest of the evening

I tried talking to him about it, reassuring him, and even saying it's okay for him to be upset about it.

But I have to uphold my boundaries.

He kept making passive aggressive comments and being cold.

I think he's a super anxious person and I understand that but I don't think he's the right person for me to be dating.

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We had a talk also the previous day about how often we should see one another. We created a schedule (this works better for me and respects both of our time)

But he still seemed to hint that he might just want to pop by whenever. :/