Age gap relationship

@BohemianBabe statistics say most women prefer a partner of a similar age. Even so, 10 years seems to be the max. This man is in his 60’s. He’s not getting a 20 year old. Dont lie to him.

@666Maggotz The question was if girls like old men, not if they prefer actual relationship with older men. The stats are actually similar for older men. Men like having flings with young girls, but prefer girls around the same age for long term relationships.

@BohemianBabe that’s not the stats I read about men. I think it should be implied that he’s talking about himself lol he’s not going to get a young girl as a senior citizen

@666Maggotz As a wife, nah. But as a fling, maybe.
I notice the same thing with interracial relationships. The stats show that Asian girls prefer white guys, but are way more likely to marry someone of the same specific ethnicity. When it comes to actual relationships, things like age and culture matter. But they matter much less when you just want quick bang bang.

@BohemianBabe that’s almost as if Asian cultures tend to be very racist 💀I would say it’s more societal pressure than actual desire as to why they’re not marrying.

@666Maggotz Well the same could be said for age gaps. There's a lot of social pressure to marry within the same age range. In both cases, people probably figure it's just easier to marry in a way that doesn't upset the families.

@BohemianBabe so you saying most of them wasn’t based off anything whatsoever. No stats or anything. You’re not very smart.

@666Maggotz I'm pretty sure I mentioned that I'm basing this off of stats. Like with age gaps, what Asian girls prefer is different from what they actually do, but only when it comes to marriage.

So to bring it back to the original point. Most girls do like much older men, but not for long term relationships because there are a bunch of other factors when it comes to relationships that aren't present when it comes to flings.

@BohemianBabe this post never talked about marriage. Even when it comes to hook ups, the stats say women prefer men of a similar age. I never even met a young girl irl that liked much older men. It seems you just don’t know what women like. You’re a man, stay in your own lane.

@666Maggotz Yes, but the stats with interracial relationships were specifically about marriage, which is close enough to my point that preference doesn't always line up with long term relationships. Young girls may prefer old men, but for other reasons, will get into relationships with guys of the same age. Similar to Asian girls having a preference for white guys, but getting into relationships (specifically marriage) with guys of the same race and ethnicity.

And identity politics?! What are you, liberal?

@BohemianBabe um yes I am 💀 I would say comparing race and age is like comparing apples to oranges.

Even the stats say we PREFER men of a similar age. Not just for marriage but hook ups too.

Men can’t possibly know how a woman truly thinks. To act like you know more about the female brain than an actual woman is wild.

@666Maggotz First of all, that's why I'm going by the data. Secondly, people are individuals. I would never argue that men think something because I, personally, think that thing. I know that I could be the exception, so even when it comes to demographics I belong to, I still have to consult the data. Also, the female brain isn't actually that different from the male brain, and what was considered attractive is different based on culture and period. The same way there are no objectively true gender roles, there are no objectively attractive people.
Finally, I would argue that I know more about literally everything than anyone. So of course I know more about the female brain than you.

@666Maggotz That's exactly what someone dumber than me would say.

@BohemianBabe oh Hun that was very much a stereotype not all Asian are the same and not all women are the same

@Tahitiangrandma Yes, we're talking generalities here. I even said that there is no objective preference because preference generality changes based on culture and period. This isn't biological, it's cultural.