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@JoyfulSilence sex and heavy lifting unless you love him-then you need him to share life with you.

@Myocite

I have never had sex. And as I've aged, my libido has evaporated. I probably should get some pills.

I stopped lifting heavy things 15 years ago after I hurt my back doing so. I always hire people.

Loving a woman and being loved by her would be awesome! The latter has not yet happened to me, though.

I could share my life with a woman. But my life is sort of dull. I mostly just want to relax all day. So she would have to want that, too!

@JoyfulSilence you're too young to think that. You can't ever give up!!!

@Myocite

Yes, I will never give up wanting to relax all day!

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@JoyfulSilence Nooooooo.... Don't give up. Life is precious.

@Myocite

Especially sipping a pina colada poolside.

@Myocite Why the sad face?

You do not like pina coladas?

@JoyfulSilence I love life.

@Myocite

Life does have some fine things. What are your favorites?

@JoyfulSilence Other than the obvious, dancing, music, reading, learning, tennis, ping pong, creating new YouTube videos, and helping others. You?

@Myocite

I like math, science, and history, and reading about them. I have a degree in math and my job involves math. I like to dine out, go to parks, gardens, arboretums, and museums. I love to drive around rural landscapes (I live in a metropolis, though, for my job) and drive around the mountains. I love the Rockies! I do all of this alone, though.

@JoyfulSilence Why? Why not try to find someone to share life with?

@Myocite Nobody has ever shown interest.

I have been interested, though.

@JoyfulSilence You have to be assertive/aggressive sometimes. Plus, maybe your expectations are unrealistic.

@Myocite

I am not an aggressive or assertive person. Unless it is about math.

When it comes to women, often my expectations are unrealistic. For example, I keep getting feelings for non-single women. Clearly a problem, LOL!

I really do not talk to women, other than on here.

@JoyfulSilence You need to make it a priority if you don't want to be alone. It's all within your control.

@Myocite

Yes, I need to make an effort to meet people in person! I am just too lazy.

@JoyfulSilence Then it's not important to you.

@Myocite

Yeah, I guess it is not.

But I am quite lonely. And the only cure for that is to be with people!

At least I come on here to talk to people.

@JoyfulSilence math is my least favorite subject. My brain is lazy about memorizing formulas. I'd rather be creative.

@JoyfulSilence it's not the same at all. This is just a distraction & not real.

@Myocite

Yeah, not many people like it. I like it because it need not be tied to reality, but it needs to be logically consistent. Still, there are some things that can neither be proven nor disproven. The way around this is to just assume some things are true, and try and build off of it, without contradictions.

I have a creative side, too. I have some talent in visual art, and can write decent poems if I try hard. I do not do such activities often, though, since it is not required for work, and when I am off work I just want to relax. Being creative is hard! Maybe when I retire and am more relaxed I can play around with that stuff more.

I sometimes write poems on here, but that is only to get attention. Yet I am mostly ignored on here, no matter what I post (except some photos). So the incentive is not there. It is frustrating to spend so much time on a poem or story, when only like two people read it.

@Myocite I spend a lot of time on here and have met nice people. It is very real to me!

It was nice chatting with you. I need to go to bed now. Good night.

@JoyfulSilence I'm sorry. I saw & noticed your French toast had only 3 views. If you want a more fulfilling life you'll have to put some work into it. You aren't old & there are a lot of lonely but good women out there.

@JoyfulSilence Every woman needs a man 🤗