We don't change people by fighting with them.

When I meet someone whose views are hurtful and vastly different than mine, that I wholeheartedly disagree with, I meet them with compassion.

You have to change a heart before you can change a mind.

They are bodhisattvas, too. 🩷

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DarkHeaven ·

I try too as well. But some of the things they can say about gay people, test me.

TheFlippantSide · F

@DarkHeaven It's a process. Even the Buddhas were not perfect. They made their way by acknowledging their imperfections...anger, impatience. But they worked through that daily.

I see your bodhisattva heart. 💜

DarkHeaven ·

@TheFlippantSide Personally, I think Jesus may have been one. Personally I read only the parts that say … “and Jesus said,” and it’s strIght buddhas. I just follow love as Buddha and Christ would have me.

https://similarworlds.com/poetry/writing/poetr/4611028-you-follow-your-own-Jesus-you-say-that-youre-a-Christian-but

TheFlippantSide · F

@DarkHeaven Yes, you are right. Jesus is Buddha. I just sent you a DM.

DarkHeaven ·

@TheFlippantSide I don’t PM much. I’m on a good bit of Xanax at this point and I kinda what to read it when I’m not actively in crisis.

TheFlippantSide · F

@DarkHeaven It's ok. It's not crisis related but do what you can, when you can. 💜

TheFlippantSide · F

@DarkHeaven It's just a link to a book.

DarkHeaven ·

@TheFlippantSide but I will read it, I promise you. 🖤🤗

TheFlippantSide · F

@DarkHeaven I know you will. You'll love it. It's a link to one of Pema Chodron's books 💜