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A subs trial period how long should it be

I have a submissive friend that has a new potential dominate she told me she is on a trial before she becomes his sub .
she has to ware plugs from small to medium to large one size every day for a week the time she has to have it in is 1to 2 hrs each day for 7 days then move to next size for 7 more days then after the 3 weeks is up he moves to another stage .she has already Had 2 meetings so far with him and he does seem to be some what worthwhile he has also left her to have sub drop both meetings. I have had subs before and i never had a them do a trial for weeks nor have i ever left then alone to go thru subdrop alone.I guess im asking for Doms and subs how long have you had a trial go on and what did your Dom have you do and the Doms what was your time for a trial with a sub and your instructions before they became your sub?
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hlpflwthat · M
Everyone is on trial. Always. Ask anyone who has ever been dumped.

Every relationship of every flavor has its own definition. I've done some very sexually dominant things to/with/for a partner when we've never spoken one word about our positions of power and the exchange of it. In no way are those interactions any 'less-than' those where some status has been declared. For me anyhow.

So whatever works for you or for them is what works.

Some people fall in love 3rd date. Some take a few years. They're all still lovers however long it took. Same with dominance and submission. Sounds pretty involved already if she's having sub drop. That sounds like what matters. She's gotta tell him bout that. He might need some coaching.