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A subs trial period how long should it be

I have a submissive friend that has a new potential dominate she told me she is on a trial before she becomes his sub .
she has to ware plugs from small to medium to large one size every day for a week the time she has to have it in is 1to 2 hrs each day for 7 days then move to next size for 7 more days then after the 3 weeks is up he moves to another stage .she has already Had 2 meetings so far with him and he does seem to be some what worthwhile he has also left her to have sub drop both meetings. I have had subs before and i never had a them do a trial for weeks nor have i ever left then alone to go thru subdrop alone.I guess im asking for Doms and subs how long have you had a trial go on and what did your Dom have you do and the Doms what was your time for a trial with a sub and your instructions before they became your sub?
hlpflwthat · M
Everyone is on trial. Always. Ask anyone who has ever been dumped.

Every relationship of every flavor has its own definition. I've done some very sexually dominant things to/with/for a partner when we've never spoken one word about our positions of power and the exchange of it. In no way are those interactions any 'less-than' those where some status has been declared. For me anyhow.

So whatever works for you or for them is what works.

Some people fall in love 3rd date. Some take a few years. They're all still lovers however long it took. Same with dominance and submission. Sounds pretty involved already if she's having sub drop. That sounds like what matters. She's gotta tell him bout that. He might need some coaching.
dominateofyou · 61-69, M
I am wondering the same thing ,Ihave had subs do a trial but not that long .i prefer to get ro know them thru calls and text and pictures then a meeting in a public place a couple of times ,online subs i dont do that with real life subs yes .i want to know something about who im going to have a scene with and sex with .From what she has told me they have only met in dark secluded places .I think hes hiding something.
iamBen · M
Since the sub has all the power in the relationship because it's up to them to decide they trust the dom enough to submit, the time frame required is whatever time the sub needs.
dominateofyou · 61-69, M
@iamBen This isnt the case with her its his idea and now the trial is over he wants to extend it and he is not really in contact with her very much
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
I hope you get a lot of replies im interested in this subject.

to me i think he is stretching it out ,for some reason they met twice so what is the problem
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dominateofyou · 61-69, M
@allygator18 so what did you have to do during your trial
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dominateofyou · 61-69, M
@allygator18 lets talk on sw chat is that ok

 
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