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Plans Change

Last time I told you how I became a prostitute while studying at university. At the time I intended to leave prostitution when I graduated. This is an update to that story.

Last November I started working at a brothel part time to pay the bills while I was at university. I was a student who was a prostitute on the side.

Since then I have learnt a lot about the work, men and, above all, myself. I was surprised at how much I enjoyed the work and how empowered it made me feel. I was also surprised at the things I'd done to please men - and make money. Things I would never have considered if I wasn't a prostitute.

Over the last few months I have sensed more and more that I was a prostitute who also went to university. It bothered me. It wasn't in the plan.

Yesterday I logged into SW for the first time in a while and started chatting. Somebody asked me what I was going to do when I graduated. I admitted that there was a chance that I would continue working. That was the first time I realised that working as a prostitute permanently wasn't out of the question. I admitted to myself that my plan had to change.

I thought about it for the rest of the day. After I accepted that after I graduated I would remain in prostitution, I had another question to ask myself. What is the point of getting a degree if I'm not going to use it? Why wait until I graduate? Ok that's two questions but the answers lead to the same result.

So, I've decided that prostitution will be my full time job and that I will drop out of university. Some people will think I'm crazy but I'm comfortable with my decision. I knew before I started that I might get hooked on the work and I was willing to take that risk. That time has come and I'm staying on the hook.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Not one to push your choices.

Yet please remember the more options you have, the better off you are.

Not pushing, yet do reconsider graduating. You might regret it in years to come.

You can always keep on doing what you are doing. Even with a degree. Unimaginable doors open because of degrees. Even for Callgirls.

Just that you stuck with it matters to some in your business.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@chaoticharmony added edit...

Just that you stuck with it matters to some in your business.

Optics.
chaoticharmony · 18-21, F
@DeWayfarer

You can always keep on doing what you are doing. Even with a degree. Unimaginable doors open because of degrees. Even for Callgirls.

The problem is that I've been ambivalent about uni for a while. Maybe my head got turned by the money I was earning and could earn. It's quite likely. Right now I'm not sure I could stay at uni now that I've decided to drop out.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@chaoticharmony Easier to change your major than getting back into university.

Yet whatever. It's your life.
a few other have mentioned it, but I suppose I'll reiterate. it's likely a somewhat to very good plan to finish out your degree. it could be that you never use it or need it, but it's almost certainly better to have a good 'fall back' plan/something you can use to switch to another profession. it leave more doors open to you and with the world as it is, that's almost never a bad thing.
chaoticharmony · 18-21, F
@dirge I understand what you and the others are saying. I can just say that the way I feel about it at the moment is that I'm making the right decision for me. Will I regret it? I don't know. I'll take the consequences if i do.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It's good that you can do what feels right for you.
I guess you can always go back to Uni at a later date if you have a change of heart.
chaoticharmony · 18-21, F
@MrAverage1965 Yes, that's a possibility. I doubt I could stay at uni right now since I made my decision
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
Great story and I completely agree with you!
MtnManJohn · 61-69, M
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. You enjoy what you’re doing, and you are firm in your decisions – thats all that matters.
chaoticharmony · 18-21, F
@MtnManJohn I'm comfortable with my decision. People already thought what they wanted so I'm used to it.
1490wayb · 56-60, M
im curious what is your parent's opinion??
chaoticharmony · 18-21, F
@1490wayb They've never liked me working anyway. Dad won't speak to me but Mum will if Dad isn't around. I didn't expect them to like it but I did want them to accept it

 
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