I Am Married to An Alcoholic
We are trying to reconcile.... But He is a total drunk. He is totally out of control!
51-55, F
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1GHOST · M
Welcome .... I am the Ghost ....a alcoholic in recovery for 15 + yrs .
Not a drop, not even mouth wash.
If I can help I will .
But its true he will NOT change and you alone can not help him do it .
Sorry but true recovery needs hard answers.
It may help if you went to AL-ANON .its for the people impacted by drunk loved ones . It helps you to see the truth about us drunks / NOT how to forgive us but to stop enabling us .
And see that it is not you, no matter what he says or you feel .
If you would like to dig into this I can tell you what I know..
Not a drop, not even mouth wash.
If I can help I will .
But its true he will NOT change and you alone can not help him do it .
Sorry but true recovery needs hard answers.
It may help if you went to AL-ANON .its for the people impacted by drunk loved ones . It helps you to see the truth about us drunks / NOT how to forgive us but to stop enabling us .
And see that it is not you, no matter what he says or you feel .
If you would like to dig into this I can tell you what I know..